Category: judgment

celebration, choices, confidence, conscious living, different, endurance, family, fears, gratitude, inspiration, judgment, make up, masks, noticing, self worth, vulnerability, writing

boots made for walkin

As this year’s National Blog Post Month draws to its close today, I am thrilled to claim my newly earned status. Not only have I successfully completed the challenge posed by NaBloPoMo, I’ve gone the entire month without putting on one ounce of makeup. I went to business dinners, formal restaurants, a jazz performance, kept … Continue reading boots made for walkin

children, choices, confidence, conscious living, cosmetics, daughters, different, endurance, family, fears, feminism, inspiration, judgment, make up, masks, mothers, self worth, vulnerability

the skin i’m in

As I edged my way towards my teen years, Helen Reddy’s song, “I Am Woman”, was adopted as the anthem of the Women’s Lib movement, catapulting it to  the top of the music charts. This conflagration of events ignited my mother’s rebellion against my father’s restrictions. The irony of my mother's name being 'Helen' here … Continue reading the skin i’m in

advertising, choices, confidence, conscious living, cosmetics, different, fears, judgment, make up, manipulation, marketing, masks, noticing, propaganda, public relations, secrets, self esteem, self worth, shame

gag reflex

As a child, I decided not to lie — at least not intentionally. It sounded like a good idea at the time. You see, I’d noticed that no matter how well I thought I was covering up whatever it was I was trying to hide, the grown ups always seemed to know when I wasn’t … Continue reading gag reflex

celebration, choices, different, family, fears, gratitude, judgment, mirroring, noticing, self worth, vulnerability

matt finish

Much of my reflection during this month has been initiated by my appearance and experiences surrounding how I perceive and am perceived. Tomorrow being Thanksgiving, I’d like to share a difference experience of my reflection. Perhaps it might give us a different lens with which to see those who join us in celebration. Two years … Continue reading matt finish

choices, confidence, conscious living, different, inspiration, judgment, make up, masks, self esteem, self worth, vulnerability, writing

con game

In my previous post, I referred to “the Voice”, the whispered wisdom that I hear in the deepest recesses of my mind, distinguishable from all other thoughts, each with their own personalities. The Voice has been my inner navigation system — my GPS, if you will. But I’m not going to talk about “the Voice” … Continue reading con game

Bernays, children, choices, conscious living, different, fears, judgment, make up, manipulation, masks, noticing, secrets, self esteem, self worth, shame, vulnerability

unacceptable

I didn't count on this showing up. If I did, I might not have done it. Maybe it’s best that I didn’t know. I might have chickened out. I’ve done it before, you know. What began as an experiment — immersing myself in being fully visible, without a mask to hide behind by way of … Continue reading unacceptable

choices, conscious living, cosmetics, different, endurance, fears, feminism, gratitude, inspiration, judgment, make up, masks, noticing, self esteem, self worth, shame, vulnerability, writing

only words

I’ve become fascinated, admittedly bordering on obsessed, with TED Talks regarding self image, concepts of beauty, and self esteem. A theme has emerged over the course of this project, which I will be exploring more deeply during the remainder of this month’s blogging challenge. There is literally more to it than meets the eye, which … Continue reading only words